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Post by Tara on Apr 30, 2005 16:56:35 GMT -5
Well you know what littlepea...let's make a plan... Let's start with this question: If you were to ask her out now, do you think you'd have time to see her regularly and be a "good boyfriend"?
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Post by spiritman on Apr 30, 2005 17:25:48 GMT -5
"rules"? Be careful of your wording. Don't ever use that word. [/IMG][/quote] Yeah I know I shouldn't have said that in that kind of way. Well today I gave her my email so now I just will go about my life like I have been doing and see what happens. I will still talk to her at work to keep it going.
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Post by littlepea on Apr 30, 2005 20:03:59 GMT -5
i think i'd be a great boyfriend and i'd always make time to see her. the only problem about just now is that we both have exams and tonnes of work to do (we have one tomorrow - ie. monday - criminal law, it's very interesting). there's 3 to do and the last one is a week next friday (the 13th of may), so we probably couldn't go out straight away, but we could hang out and study and "stuff", so i don't think it would be that much of a problem ... i just don't want to keep putting it off because eventually it'll be the last time i see her before summer and then i'll have blown it once again ...
i don't have her phone number, i don't know any of her friends or how to find her, i just have to hope i see her in the library while studying ...
PS. good work spiritman ;D
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Post by Tara on May 1, 2005 15:57:12 GMT -5
Why don't you wait until after exams littlepea?
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Post by littlepea on May 1, 2005 18:32:29 GMT -5
because i don't know how to find her other than by going to the library to study and hope for the best ... though i think i'll ask for her number and see if she wants to meet up after exams are over, seems like the smartest option. i have an exam in approximately 9 hours time, it's a complete nightmare, it's very possible that i'm going to be up for another 3-4 hours before snatching a couple of hours sleep and then breakfast. i've heard that it's good to sleep for a multiple of 4 hours, so i'd be better of studying until 4am than studying until 3 so i get up at 8 ... don't tell me otherwise until tomorrow cos it might still have a placebo effect i really hate exams
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Post by Tara on May 2, 2005 13:41:09 GMT -5
Okay, it's tommorow now ;D and who knows what you've done so far. Go with the number and/or make a plan to meetup someplace. Hope you know what she likes.
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Post by littlepea on May 2, 2005 15:25:08 GMT -5
well, i got about 2 hours sleep last night but the exam went better than expected. one of the questions even, can you believe it, involved the football team i support ... ;D;D;D anyway, i happened to see her after the exam finished and went and spoke to her. we were both very relieved to have got it over with and we spoke a bit about the exam. i was over-tired, however, and not thinking clearly and plain forgot to ask for her number . it was so stupid, she started to walk out the hall, but it was busy and we got separated a bit. she didn't look back to see if i was following so i assumed she wanted to go off to meet her friends, so i turned round to meet some other friends and then i saw her turn round to check on me ... she saw i wasn't following and walked off on her own ... so stupid ... but now i'm starting to over-think, so i'll stop
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Post by Tara on May 2, 2005 15:42:11 GMT -5
Shame on you littlepea. lol Maybe it wasn't meant to be at this moment.
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Post by spiritman on May 2, 2005 16:59:33 GMT -5
Well she just emailed yesterday evening but I will wait 3 days to email her back since she waited 3 days to email me after I gave her my email. I was so pyshced that she emailed, I thought she wouldn't email but she did.
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Post by littlepea on May 2, 2005 17:23:54 GMT -5
i dunno if i would wait that long, but what the hell do i know
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Post by spiritman on May 2, 2005 22:45:25 GMT -5
i dunno if i would wait that long, but what the hell do i know Well the reason I am doing that is because if I emailed her the right after she emailed me, it would have showed that I am needy and not secure about myself. If I wait then it keeps her waiting and wondering when I am going to email her back something along those lines. Plus I will see her Tuesday so I will just play it cool until Wed and then email her Wed night.
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Post by littlepea on May 3, 2005 7:28:00 GMT -5
well good luck, you sound like you know what you're doing ... by the way, did anyone on here sign me up to loads of e-mail dating tips? i'm not particularly annoyed, just curious ...
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Post by Tara on May 3, 2005 7:33:52 GMT -5
Maybe spiritman or psyence did.
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Post by spiritman on May 3, 2005 17:47:11 GMT -5
well good luck, you sound like you know what you're doing ... by the way, did anyone on here sign me up to loads of e-mail dating tips? i'm not particularly annoyed, just curious ... No it was not me and that is the truth.
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Post by Tara on May 4, 2005 17:20:07 GMT -5
So, do you think the tips the annonymous person signed you up for would be helpful? lol
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